I’m worried about the size of my breasts?

September 9th, 2009 | by admin |

I’m 16, the legal age of consent in the UK, and I have a wonderful boyfriend. Recently, we’ve been talking about sex, and we both feel ready. I’m really looking forward to it,when it happens, but I’m really worried about the size of my breasts. They are extremely small, and always have been. I wear Atlantis bras whenever I see him, and so he knows they are small, but not how small they are, if you see what I mean. I’m really nervous about him seeing them and laughing, or dumping me because of it. I trust him so much, but I can’t help feeling this way. Can really tiny breasts EVER be attractive?
Um … to LittleMiss whatever - I’m English. Therefore, I do not have a MOM - it’s mum. Also, I don’t want your opinion on premarital sex - can you answer the question without being offensive? Thank you.

Honestly sweetie don’t worry.

If you and your boyfriend are ready to have sex and he is serious about you, he won’t mind. If he’s one of these stupid players well then he’s not worth the time of day anyway.
He doesn’t mind what you look like on the outside, he obviously thinks you’re beautiful the way you are and I imagine that your breasts are the last of his concerns.

If he does dump you or anything then you know you had a lucky escape!! Just look at all the celebrities with flat chest; don;t worry about it!

Remember to only have sex when you are ready, and of course; play safe :-)

  1. 28 Responses to “I’m worried about the size of my breasts?”

  2. By QT on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    If he loves you and cares about you he won’t care. If he dumps you over it then he’s an ass!
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  3. By ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    be happy with how you are naturally. dont worry about it im sure he wont be thinking about that
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  4. By Malcolm W on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    yes they can and if he doesnt like u becasue of tht then he is not for you.
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  5. By stranger on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    don’t worry , if he is attacted to u , size won’t matter

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  6. By Jez W on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    yes they can ,everybody has concerns and worries over their body its natural,
    and i don’t think you are ready just yet otherwise these worries about him wouldn’t be in your mind
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  7. By littlemissypinay on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    He’s totally gonna dump you if he sees those flats so dont have premarital sex with him!!!Your mom didnt feed you to sleep around!
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  8. By some guy on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    look , every single girl in the world have something beautiful . and all breasts (except the massive ones) are sexy . but don’t worry it doesn’t matter that much anyways
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  9. By Stef VAIZARD on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    of course greek miss young 2007 had tiny breasts but she has extremly beautiful face and body so she was very attractive. check doukissa nomikou
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  10. By shevywevy on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    oh, you really dont need to worry about this at all…..hes your bf he knows what you look like…and im sure that he has already noticed that you are small anyway, so hes clearly unbothered about that, as you said you ‘have a wonderful boyfriend’ and if thats true there is no chance he wont be attracted to how you are….just have the confidence within yourself and that will make him even more attracted to you than he already is.

    your fine, dont worry about a thing
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  11. By fiddler on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    Some men prefer smaller breasts.I do and have all my life.Be comfortable
    with your body and from what you say about your boyfriend.If you’s decide to
    go ahead i doubt he’d laugh.In fact i’ve not known any guy in my company
    laugh at a girls body.We’re to busy admiring them.
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  12. By tamisara sez on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    Of course they can, Keira Knightley is an extremely beautiful woman, desired by a horde of men, and she has small breasts, so has Kate Moss.
    So what if you enhanced what you’ve got, most women do, and the idea is to make the packaging appealing so that they want to taste what is inside, if he likes you enough to want to have sex, then he will already be hooked, and the size of your breasts won’t matter one iota. And if they do, then sweetheart he is really not worth worrying about, but i’m sure it won’t be an issue. We all worry about our bodies, i’m sure he may worry whether his manhood is big enough, so if he likes don’t stress, and think of all the beautiful women who are the same as you. Good luck hun
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  13. By L a u z ..x on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I’m the same. I’ve always been small.. When i would have sex with my bf i would keep my top on everytime. I thought he would think OMG their too small i don;t want to be with her anymore. Or he would tell everyone. But in the end when i did take my top off he was suprisingly really nice about it.
    He said he doesn’t care about how small they maybe he loves me and loves everything about me. & he loves them the way they are.
    If you both trust eachother enough then you have nothing to worry about honestly. & if a boy ever does say anything about our small boobs we can turn around and say he’s got much smaller things ;)
    Better you just go with the flow because you don’t want him thinking hes done something wrong lol …Just enjoy it :)
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  14. By Jenny J on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    why do u wish to sleep with someone yet, wait for a bit longer
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  15. By Dj_db4night on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    if he likes you the way you are then no prob.
    But if he laughs cause of that then he would be an idiot
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  16. By windimlljouster on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I have always loved members of the itty bitty titty club. I think they are beautiful. The great thing is that 20 or 30 years from now, yours won’t be sagging down to your navel. They will still be up on your chest proudly. Since you are only 16, there is still a chance that they will grow some more.

    Be proud of what you have. For me and a lot of other guys, when we see them, we are usually in no shape to complain.
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  17. By rah . on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I know how you feel.
    I’m practically flat chested and my boyfriend doesn’t seem to mind, but I just feel so uncomfortable and I always wear a bra.
    But don’t worry guys aren’t that interested in your boobs while you’re having sex and it’s not something a guy would dump a girl over, if it is then a guy like that shouldn’t have a girlfriend.
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  18. By gamexor on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    honestly dont worry about it. yes small breasts are attractive. everybody has different tastes and if he truely loves you he will see past your body anyway. love yourself the same way. you have nothing to worry about!
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  19. By SMILEY GIRL on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I think it is unfair what ‘little miss whatever’ has said because it is your own choice and your own life!

    If your boyfriend really loves you then he shouldnt care about the size of your breasts. If both of you are 100% having sex out of love then it should be fine.

    If you’re not to sure or if you’re slightly scared, talk to him about it. It may seem strange but again if he really loves you then he’ll understand.

    good luck! x
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  20. By Rose D on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    Awww…I feel sorry for your situation. Firstly, dont do yourself harm by worrying so much about your guy thinking like that. You should consider your self perfect, its the only way you can get out of thinking such stuff. I would advise you to wait until you have sex…you are young at 16. Give it some time, get to know your BF more. I am sure you dont know him thoroughly…if you did you wouldnt ask strangers what your BF may or may not think. You are clearly not comfortable with him, you need to get to know him more before you do it. guys love sex…hes just gonna say oh I love you etc to get you into it. When he proves to you that your the first thing on his mind in the morning and last thing when he goes to sleep…you will know in your heart that he is the right guy and when you can commit yourself to him.

    Oh and if he does dump you because of that reason…you will know he was after sex…no guy should dump a girl because of the size of her breasts…he should love you and not your body.

    Dont do it and regret it when another great guy comes along…plus your current BF could spread rumours about you…shes has this has that or thier small…think carefully…I hope everything goes well…and do worry too much girl! you’l get wrinkles!!
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  21. By Chris H on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    If he really cares about you then the size of your breasts isn’t going to sway him.
    Some guys pefer smaller breasts to the larger fuller breasts.

    besides you’re still growing and that includes your breasts so as you get older you’ll find your breasts will change in apperance shape and size.
    Seriously don’t cry yourself to sleep over it, if he walks away on seeing your breasts then he’s not worth it.
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  22. By lottidotti on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    He loves you for who you are and that includes your breast so don’t worry, it is and will be natural when it happens
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  23. By thunderbird 22 on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    look u r 16 and i am sure by the time ur 18 and 20 urs breasts will be developed,, and if u say he’s u’r BF then it means he accepts u for what u are,,

    and dont worry abt size ,,as long as u enjoy being with him,,..its ok,,,

    u r not only one with small breasts,, so just take it as a normal thing thts not abnormal..
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  24. By E S on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    Small breasts can be very sexy because they are nice to play with
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  25. By Jenny R on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I`m sure you will both have other thoughts at the time and if you both love each other it will not matter after that because you will have found much more important things to bring you together.
    I fear little miss lives in a different world and it`s not a very nice one.
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  26. By kazz06 on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    I very much doubt he’s going to dump you andhe wont llaughat you. and if you don’t want to you don’t have to take off your bra.
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  27. By midnight_ashes on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    Honestly sweetie don’t worry.

    If you and your boyfriend are ready to have sex and he is serious about you, he won’t mind. If he’s one of these stupid players well then he’s not worth the time of day anyway.
    He doesn’t mind what you look like on the outside, he obviously thinks you’re beautiful the way you are and I imagine that your breasts are the last of his concerns.

    If he does dump you or anything then you know you had a lucky escape!! Just look at all the celebrities with flat chest; don;t worry about it!

    Remember to only have sex when you are ready, and of course; play safe :-)
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    I have a birthmark spanning the side of my left leg from my toe to my bum! Now that caused me some distress in my younger days believe me!! Now I think "well, if it bothers you then you’re a loser"

  28. By Cotton Socks on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    As my boyfriend says… more than a handful is a waste.
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  29. By MrsNickJonas<3 on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply

    if you trust your boyfriend and you feel comfortable around him then you have no problem at all! dont worry about anything! if he is the right guy for you then your breast size dont matter!!
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